Don't Push the River - Easier Life

If you ever forget who said something, just call is a Chinese Proverb.

“Don’t push the river” is one such proverb.  AND… for what it’s worth, what does it really mean?

There are three basic messages inherent in, “Don’t push the river.”

1. Go with the flow.  This is not about being a helpless cork in the river of life.  This refers to an awareness of the natural order of the environment you are in.  It is a balance of the instinctual interpretation and a cerebral context.  Where is the flow in your job or relationships?  How can you maximize your position where everyone wins?
2. Use your energy wisely.  It can be tempting to conquer all that stands in your way.  With dogged determination and brute force, you can be the victor.  A worn out, bewildered victor might be your reward.  Use the martial art technique of using the force that faces you to your own advantage.
3. Rest with intention.  Find the places in the metaphorical river of life to rest.  There are eddies where you can recoup your sprits and regain perspective.  Rest frequently, pop back into the flow when you have caught your breath.

Here's to an easier life,
Vince Poscente
Personal Development
Success Strategies
Performance Psychology